Phase IV - Life

Dear Friends,

Last Friday was my last day of radiation. Another milestone passed. This week I have no doctors' appointments. I can't say that my feeling is one of pure joy since there is plenty to worry about if I wanted to. For the most part I have been successful in not focusing on the uncertainty and the 10% chance that there are still some devil cells hiding out, regrouping and steeling themselves for the slaughter. But now that I am not receiving very frequent treatment it may be harder to push those thoughts away. On the other hand, every three weeks for the next seven or eight months I will receive a mini infusion of chemotherapy, and every day for the next five years I will take an oral form of chemotherapy. I will also see my oncologist every six weeks. So my treatment isn't exactly over, which is some comfort.

The one thing that doesn't happen with this cancer is regular CAT scans - at least at this stage. This is a relief. I guess they figure that no good will come from discovering renegade tumors after all this treatment. If those nasty, little cells were able to survive eight months of chemo blasting, we might as well give up since no amount of early detection will save me.

I have my annual physical next week. Remember the jealous internist who was sad about missing all the cancer drama? Well she's making me come in the first week of October. I know it is silly, but I am terrified of that appointment. I am sure she will find a new cancer threat to worry about. Cancer, cancer, cancer. Every health professional on the planet is so eager to find cancer: the internist looks for lumps and tests your blood hoping to find whacked out readings that might suggest there are tumors in your kidneys, your liver, your intestines or your blood. The gynecologist also enjoys finding internal malformations and taking cells out of your personals to look for cancer. The dermatologist looks for god-only-knows what since every blemish on the body looks like cancer to me. Even the dentist likes to do a kind of mammogram of your head to look for tumors in the jaw or some crazy place. There is no limit to the creativity of cancer to find new body parts to chew up. You got to admire it, really. Cancer has every characteristic that my father used to try to grind into me: determination, tenacity, guts, imagination...no wonder it is so successful.

So the question is what to do with this blog. The original idea was to keep you all posted on my progress. Now that the treatment is pretty much done and there is nothing to do but wait to see how long I live, there won't be much to report until something terrible happens, in which case I may not feel like writing about it here. On the other hand, if I don't write this blog you might think I'm dead. You could just assume I am alive until the husband posts an epilogue on the blog. Another option is for me to write occasional, boring updates on my gloriously, humdrum existence. Lets go with the last option...for now.

Thank you all for supporting me through this ordeal. Your help with meals, gifts, companionship and kind words made me feel more lucky than unlucky. Thank you also for reading and commenting on these posts and for letting me know that now and then they made you laugh.

Until the next time I have something to say...

xoxoxox